Mediation to stay marrried
Stay together without staying stuck
Relationship Mediation helps couples de-escalate conflict, rebuild trust and create clear agreements—so love has room to breathe again
What is Relationship Mediation?
Relationship Mediation is a structured, future-focused process for couples who want to stay together but feel trapped in recurring arguments or decision gridlock. Unlike counselling, which explores the “why,” mediation concentrates on the “what now”—practical communication tools and step-by-step agreements you can use immediately at home, with optional referrals to therapy for deeper work when helpful.
How it helps
You’re having the same fights (money, chores, boundaries, in-laws, parenting).
You want a plan for rebuilding trust again.
You’ve grown distant and need a reset with practical habits and agreements.
What you’ll learn
A shared language for hard conversations (scripts + prompts you can use tonight).
Repair tools (acknowledgement, do-overs, conflict time-outs that actually work).
Decision frameworks (money, parenting, intimacy, boundaries with extended family).
Weekly rhythms that maintain connection (micro-rituals, meeting agendas, “no-surprises” rules).
Why work with me
Relationship Mediator + Coach + Negotiation Expert + NLP Master Practitioner: You get a skilled facilitator who can translate tension into practical agreements—without the blame spiral.
Evidence-informed tools: Draws on negotiation science, conflict psychology, and de-escalation techniques used in high-conflict settings.
Child-aware: If you have kids, we keep parenting stress out of the blast radius by designing calmer routines and consistent messages.
Culturally responsive: Respect for values, language, and traditions—agreements that fit your real life, not a one-size script.
Outcomes you can expect
Fewer flare-ups, faster recovery after disagreements.
Clear agreements about money, time, roles and boundaries.
Warmer daily tone + predictable “we-time” and “me-time.”
A practical roadmap for trust repair and future decisions.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this counselling?
No. Mediation is action-oriented and agreement-focused. We can collaborate with your therapist(s) if you wish.
What if we disagree on everything?
We’ll start with micro-agreements (tone rules, time-outs) that reduce heat so bigger issues become negotiable.
Can we include parenting topics?
Yes—time maps, conflict-free handovers, tech rules, and consistent discipline language.
What if safety is a concern?
We will pause and provide referrals. Safety overrides process.
Ethics, Safety & Privacy
Screening: universal checks for coercive control and safety at intake.
Confidentiality: sessions are private; any exceptions are discussed upfront.
Dignity rules: no shaming; we use neutral language and future-focused framing.